from Dungeon Vixen's post in the harriet thread:
<< Objectification Scenarios are great too !! Ive set a few of those up as well.. >>
I found this Village Voice article about sexual objectification to be quite compelling
"Five single beds are lined up in the middle of the small space and a large purple opaque curtain hangs from the ceiling dividing the beds in half, so that when people (called objects) lie on them, only the bottom halves of their bodies are visible to spectators..."
www.villagevoice.com/people/...,24.html
<< Objectification Scenarios are great too !! Ive set a few of those up as well.. >>
I found this Village Voice article about sexual objectification to be quite compelling
"Five single beds are lined up in the middle of the small space and a large purple opaque curtain hangs from the ceiling dividing the beds in half, so that when people (called objects) lie on them, only the bottom halves of their bodies are visible to spectators..."
www.villagevoice.com/people/...,24.html
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Tue, April 17, 2007 - 7:15 PMHmmm that sounds like an amazing event. But at least at a sex party you have a chance to discuss STD risk factors, testing status, etc. Because remember, condoms aren't perfect, especially with things like herpes. But if only that wasn't the case.... mmmmmmmm excuse me while I adjust my trousers. -
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Wed, April 18, 2007 - 5:09 PMI've done sexual objectification with girls... Had them Blindfolded Kneeling.. and then I've been the "Barker' for the party to come and get your dick sucked .. when the guy gets there . he is not to say a word to the blindolded girl, just shove his dick in her mouth, and she had 5 minutes to suck him hard, or off.. usually while another girl is in a sex sling, blindfolded and spread waiting with to get fucked..
these girls trust me and know me. That I'm watching everything for their safety the rules of this are discussed before we set them up (Safer sex rules ALWAYS in place) .. and I tell the guys as they approach to check there stuff, cause if they smell funky, she's wont be sucking on them .. If the guys break one rule. I tell them to hit the road .. their time is now over .. and on to the next.. It takes care of the fantasies for the girls, as well as for the guys.. ..in a safe way to explore.. I ask for silence from the guys because the girls do Not want to know who they have sucked and or fucked. it's the Hot part for them, cause after they have done their Objectifications, and are enjoying the rest of the party, they really don't know if they are speaking to someone they have just serviced
I'm going to be setting up the Objectification scene at some point with the girls side by side on mattresses with Curtains splitting them waist down .. to do this properly I'll need "sex monitors" for each girl.. so that the guys/girls behave appropriately, as they use each girl.
Yaaaa Objectification ... and I get the BEST seat in the House! -
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Fri, April 20, 2007 - 11:47 PMDV you get the best seat in the house but who is usually first in line, hmmmmm?
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Fri, April 20, 2007 - 5:18 AMI have not been involved in a group type objectification, but I have been tied, my hands and ankles tied to the head board, blind folded, ear plugs in.) I had no idea who was doing what to me or how many times they did it, but I loved it. The closest I have been to a group situation, was when me and my neice and my sister were all in the same room, on all fours, blindfolded, our hands and knees seperated with bars. I have done groups sex with me and several guys, and I have been in situations where there were a lot of us in one room, both male and female, but not to where there were several women who were just a hole for cock.
I have never believed it was important to know who was fucking me, but that they were. I have gone to adult arcades and put my but to glory holes, been fucked by several guys one after another, or sucked one after another. Sex is sex. It doesn't matter if there is intimacy between the people. It's sex. I have gone to park bathrooms, men's rooms, and sucked guys through glory holes. To me it is not really objectification, per se'. It's just sex. A woman shouldn't care who the guy is as long as he is hard and she wants it. I always feel like such a slut after I do things like that, and I like that feeling.
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Fri, April 20, 2007 - 9:53 AM<< I had no idea who was doing what to me or how many times they did it, but I loved it >>
Thanks for writing about your experiences, Tina
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Sat, April 21, 2007 - 9:01 AMLuckily all of our friends are pagan, poly, swingers, nudists or hedonists, so the opportunities are there if anyone in our community wants to experience it, and many have.
Tina
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Sun, April 22, 2007 - 1:19 AMThat's really hot but in the real world, don't you have even the slightest concern about catching STD's? -
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Tue, April 24, 2007 - 8:58 PMMost of the men are married or in relationships. Most of us are tested every six months just ot be sure. Of course you have to be concerned, but when you know the people and have for a long time, and who they have been with, it is safer play.
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Sat, May 5, 2007 - 12:22 PMI agree. In the cases where I have attended such things, the people involved all pretty much knew each other and had been play partners for some time. And yes, generally all the women were married or in long term relationships. The extra single guys were also known to the ladies, tested regularly, and used safer sex practices. But again, it wasn't a random gathering or snagging of people from the internet or something, it was a group where the people knew each other and engaged in this event monthly. Not all would attend every month but after a few of these events, you knew everyone who was going to be there. I never witnessed any problems nor did I get a feeling that anything was unsafe. I never heard of anyone getting an STD, and safer sex practices were always maintained.
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Sat, May 5, 2007 - 12:15 PMThat might also be part of the kink behind the various "dark room" parties around the area. Completely dark venue.
I had a girlfriend that was really into gangbangs and I enjoyed participating. It gave me a kick to see her so completely enjoying herself. We would go to what was pretty much a regular monthly event but is no longer active. She wasn't so much interested in who was doing her either, she just wanted them one after another until she was exhausted or her legs cramped up or it in some other way became unpleasant. She would get a kick out of me holding her legs or spreading her lips, made her feel good and slutty. She was mostly with her ass up in the air and her eyes closed and when one finished would call "next!" until someone stepped up to the plate. In her case it was total objectification and she would trust me to ensure everyone was within the safety guidelines. It was great fun both in assisting my ex and in indulging the other ladies when they needed something filled.
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Sun, May 13, 2007 - 4:00 AMI think we are all objects at one time or another. And this goes for sex too. Being in the dituation you desrcribed, I have been there. I loved it. It was exciting. Of course everyone pretty much knew everyone and it was safe. I have to say each time I have done it, or been done like that it was like the first time and just as exciting.
