Quy

Thank you for your lovely posting and relating your experiences..........I find your comments quite typical for a woman that had her first experience. Its a mixture of guilt and the enjoyment of the pleasures and your reaction to the mixture of both. or disorientationa dn fellings of doubt the next day are very normal for a first time and even 2 times....may i suggest a path where that can be lessen and much better to enjoy ??

Let me explain that I am a man that gets a great deal of pleasure by bonding with my partner in a caring and very sensual way.......and then step by step sharing her with at first one man joining us as an invited guest.....with a combination of pleasures for her.....with me watching from a distance and then joining together once she and the guest man are comfortable.

Then after a time of enjoying that man she relate how she felt as i orally please her ....making sure she tells me all the details of her feelings and pleasures. then from this experience slowly and with taste select additional guest men to invite depending on her preferences for ages and types....older ??? younger ?? bald man ??....long haired man ?? then after a time say a month or two slowly ease her into enjoy 2 men together say myself plus a guest man together at the same time.....then after that lovely sensual erotic pleasure ease her into having 3 men........then 4 men etc etc etc.

In this way my partner learns to condition herself for the pleasure to enjoy much more because she is prepared and anticipates...........in most cases the woman finds this as a very meaningful extension to her relationship and the gang bang at taht point can grow into many different directions with her partner......regular pleasures with 4-6 men in all types of fantasies......soem planned some very spontaneous with surprises....different men of varying sizes and nattionalities.

The key factors include,

- a trusting comfortable and caring partner as a base from which to enjoy whch provides the safety and stability in these different situations
- a strong desire from within to have a higher desire level and deeper satisfaction than being with just one man, yet having that base relationship so you have the best of both worlds
- a willingness to enjoy a higher level of pleasure and the excitment and anticipation of having a new man....as each man's pleasing and style is different and enjoyable in its way
- a life style where this form of pleasure fits comfortably and naturally.

I hope you enjoyed my comments on the direction yoru journey can take and the ways in which you can grow.

Thank you and a very Happy New Year !!!

Sincere Very Best Wishes

Nice post :)

I have only had 3-somes, but I look forward to a time where I can find a few more guys to add to the experience.

~Rainbow

hun, just relaxe and follow your heart...

Thanks for creating such an insightful post. I've been involved in a few of these and always try to make the lady the center of attention and for her to have a sensual experience. It's obvious she is sexy, or there wouldn't be a bunch of guys with hard-ons watching her.
I'm an exhibitionist and the public nature of a gang bang excites me. I like to be watched and enjoy an audience. I find them very exciting.
You should do what ever turns you on and experience all the sensuality you want. I hope you enjoy.

Q, your post- and all the responses to it- helped me. I could see a part of my experiences in what you and everyone here has said so far, from the shortest posts to the longest.

Very cool.

Thanks, everybody.

I'd had trains pulled on me before my first real gang bang. After I got married, and was eighteen, we went to a "swing club" in Hollywood. It ended up being more of a sex club. When we got there I was one of three women there. In one room there were two other women doing a girl-girl show for about 10 guys. My husband and I went into another room and there was one other couple with another guy. In that room we met another guy who came on to me. My husband went ot the other room to see the other girls and the other guy stayed with me. When my husband returned the guy I was with and I were involved.

My husband sat and watched me and this other guy. Eventually another guy joined us. then another, then another. Eventually I wasn't sure where my husband was, but I knew I was surrounded by more men than had been there when we first arrived. I found myself on top of the first guy I had been with and felt another in my ass and I was sucking another. I was kind of scared, but the original guy kept telling me that everything was okay. He did keep asking me if I was okay , though.

I eventually felt the guy in my ass pull out and another man, I knew it was another because he felt different, entered me. then I felt another in my mouth. This went on for a while. Then somehow I was on my back and more guys were in me one after another, everywhere. I felt drunk even though I had not drank anything. I wasn't sure where my husband was. I didn't know any of the guys. I was eighteen. I felt I had no control over what was happening. I felt alone, just with a lot of guys.

I loved the feeling of all the men, but I was also wondering what my husband was doing and if he knew what was happening. I could see faces every once in a while. some older, some younger, some black , some white. I remember hearing guys telling me I was so beautiful, and so good. I don;t remember a lot after the first few guys other than I had someone in me everywhere for a long time. We got to the club around 7:30 PM. When I took a break and had to tell the guys I had to take a break, I asked one what time it was. He told me it was 4:45 AM.

When I sat up to take a break I was surrounded by guys. I saw my husband and called him to me. I asked him how many guys had been with me. He told me all of them. I asked him how many there were, and he looked around. He told me there were 42 guys in the room. They were all smiling at me. I was exhausted and confused. Time had gone by and it didn't seem as that much time had passed. I whispered to my husband that I felt like a slut. He smiled and kissed me and then told me to spread my legs. Then he went down on me. I had never had a guy do this after I had been with others.

I had some juice and my husband did his thing. After a few minutes I found myself being led by the original guy back into the room I had been in. He led me to another bed in the room telling me that the one I had been in probably wasn't real clean right now. I remember rubbing my stomach, it was soaked. I noticed my husband again. He had the biggest smile on his face. Before I knew it I was back into the same situation I had been in earlier. When I had to take a break again the guys helped me up and helped me to the juice bar area. Another guy came in. When he did I could see day light through the hall way as I heard him enter.

I told my husband when I saw him again that I wanted to go home. When I looked around I was the only woman there. And there were more men than there had been earlier. And some of the guys I had seen earlier weren't there any more. The original guy I had been with wasn't there anymore, either. I asked my husband how many men I had been with. He told me he'd lost count. I was eighteen, exhausted, felt good but guilty. I loved what had happened, but didn';t really know what had happened. I knew I probably liked it too much.

When we left and were sitting in the car my husband asked me how I felt. I told him I didn;t know. He asked if I would want to come back there again. I told him no. I liked what had happened, but . . . When he asked me why I didn;t want to go back there I told him I thought I liked it too much. I told him I could get addicted to that kind of thing. Which I did. I actually went back there several times when my husband was working nights. I wanted the sex, the feelings, but each time I felt guilty afterward. I never knew any of the guys, and back then no one wore protection. I was eighteen.

I would think all day about going back there. And even while I was driving there I remember feeling a little guilty. Not really sure why though.
When I went home I went right to sleep. When my husband would cume home he would snuggle up to me and tell me I smelled really good. I would shower off before leaving the club, but I still had the men in me, just not physically. I had become addicted to the high I felt when I went to the club. I went to the club regularly for about four months. Then I quit going. I liked the sex, but felt empty afterward. Not physically, but mentally and spirirtually.

Since then I have doen many groups, had numerous trains pulled on me. Still do. I still feel a loss of control when it happens, yet since I am older I handle it better. I often feel like a slut, which doesn't bother me, but when I do gang bangs I never really see faces or know who is doing what with me. And time passes fast.

When I was eighteen, I had no idea what was really happening, but I knew I liked it and feared it at the same time. I was with any number of men I didn't know, they were all changing places and doing as they pleased. I was young and they were all ages, mostly older than me. As opposed to trains, gang bangs were and still are very different. With trains I see the guys, see their faces. When I am gang banged I do not see faces, I see cocks, feel cocks. There is no real intimacy, just sex, which is not really bad, but different.

when you have ten, fifteen or more guys you have no real control. You become a toy per se'. I forget who I am and never really know who they are. When it is over I am usually left feeling very alone. More often than not the gang bangs are with guys lovers or friends know. To this day it kind of freaks me out knowing that I don't ever really know how many guys are involved, or who many of them are, or ever get to see who they are. It is kind of scary when I think about it. Yet I continue to let it happen.

I do not feel guilty any more and haven't for a long time, but I do remember feeling guilty a lot when I was younger, yet I still did it. Gang bangs can be addictive, no, they are addictive. It is like a drug, per se'. I always feel high when I am in a gang bang. and I feel drunk afterward. Because everyone we know knows our lifestyle I am involved in gang bangs a lot. I still have trains pulled on me, and I do have regs I see, just them. But there is nothing that feels like a gang bang or what I feel during and after one.

I can't say why I still do them other than I like the feeling, the attention. I do not have sex with my husband, but I have been with every guy we know and he has worked with. I grew up in a very sex positive household. My parents were swingers, well my mom was most of the time. My father was very liberal, as were my brothers. My husband's parents are very sex positive as well, and all our friends are either pagan, poly, wiccan or a combination of those. In our circle of frinds, most of them pagan and poly, they do not see gang bangs as out of the ordinary.

I often do not know how I feel when I di the gang bangs, only that I feel drunk afterward, and sometimes still feel alone afterward.

Just my thoughts and input.

Tina

A beautiful description!

Wow, your post was really insightful. It took a great deal of courage to share your gang bang experience w/ the tribe.

Burton